Free Relationship Tool
The Relationship Reset
A 10-Minute Honest Check-In
Not for when things are broken. For when you want to keep them good.
Answer these honestly — for yourself. No scoring, no verdict. Just clarity.
When did I last feel genuinely heard in this relationship?
Not just listened to — actually heard. If you cannot remember, that is information.
What am I not saying — and why?
Fear of conflict? Habit? Feeling like it will not matter? Name it honestly.
Am I showing up as the person I want to be in this relationship?
Not “am I a good partner” — are you being the specific person you intended to be?
What do I actually need right now — that I have not asked for?
More space? More connection? A conversation that keeps getting postponed?
If this relationship stays exactly as it is for 5 years — how do I feel about that?
Your gut reaction is more honest than any answer you will think your way to.
Ready to talk it through?
Vera helps you find clarity — in every relationship.